Wednesday, 25 February 2009
Question 1: What are some consequences which a girl might face for engaging in casual sex ?
Firstly the girl would be contracted with sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis and gonorrhea.
Question 2 : What are some of your reactions after reading this article ? If one day , a close friend of yours confess to you that she has been engaging in sex , what would you advice to her be ?I feel that this world has been infested with human that is wild and more likely brainless. .In my point of view as an islam i feel that this should not be happening to the malay girl which has stated in the article.She herself does not has pride and i do not respect her as a muslim girl as she should know whats right and wrong in having a casual sex before she is married.IT seems she is not aware of the consequences as the islamic law(shariah) describe sexual relations outside of marriage are a major sin in islam and the shariah commands very strict punishment for this offense.
(024:002)
The woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication,- flog each of them with a hundred stripes: Let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.
however, the punishment can only be handed down if there are four eye witnesses to the sexual intercourse. in practical terms unless the woman (and man) was involved in a public display of indecency it is impossible to punish her legally. the wisdom of the ruling is that islam punishes a social evil. if two people are involved in sin but they limit the harm to themselves then god alone will be their judge on the day of judgment. however, when their sins begin to effect the society they are held accountable both in this world and the hereafter.
accusing somebody of fornication or adultery is not a light matter. slandering the reputation and honor of members of the society is again a grave sin. the quran says about those who slander (without evidence):
(024:004)
And those who launch a charge against chaste women, and produce not four witnesses (to support their allegations),- flog them with eighty stripes; and reject their evidence ever after: for such men are wicked transgressors;-
these are the legal ramifications.
if you are interested in consequences in the afterlife. how will god judge these people? god says in the quran:
(020:082)
"But, without doubt, I am (also) He that forgives again and again, to those who repent, believe, and do right, who,- in fine, are ready to receive true guidance."
(004:048)
Allah forgiveth not that partners should be set up with Him; but He forgiveth anything else, to whom He pleaseth; to set up partners with Allah is to devise a sin Most heinous indeed.
and finally:
(012:087)
truly no one despairs of Allah's Soothing Mercy, except those who have no faith.
while a person is alive there is always a chance to repent sincerely and earn god's forgivenss. and he is oft-forgiving, most merciful.
allahu alam (god knows be.If my friend were involved in engaging sex before.i would advice her to seek a counselor and if she is a muslim,i would ask her to do taubat nasuha as desricebe in the Al quran.
16:32
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